Top five conversation starters on online dating sites

Talking to strangers is always difficult and particularly so when you are making your first steps in the world of online dating.

You know that to strike up a conversation with those who catch your eye you will need make an initial move – typically in the form of a private message – but knowing what to say is tough. Here, we take a look at the top five subjects you could fall back on to get things moving with a prospective date.

1) Mutual interests

Be sure to read the profile of the person you are going to message and identify any mutual interests you may have. Whether it is swimming, cycling, comedy, food or the theatre, it is always easiest to start on a matter close to your own heart.

The added bonus of this is that it will prove to your potential partner you have read every word of their profile.

2) Goals and ambitions

Everyone loves an ambitious person, so do not be afraid to show how determined you are to succeed in life. There is no harm in revealing what drives you and where you hope life will take you, although be careful not to sound cold.

3) Personal circumstances

A good conversation starter is to explain what first brought you to online dating and to see whether it matches up with the reasoning of your prospective date. After all, you are all online for a reason, but everyone's path has been different so do not be scared to give an insight into your personal circumstances.

4) Current affairs

You could always avoid the issue of dating altogether and simply start to talk to someone as though you have met them in the pub. Why not ask them what they think of a news story, television show or sports match?

5) Family

While there are certain subjects you should never bring up – such as past relationships – you can be loud and proud about your family.